IVF & (in)Fertility

“Life is a balance of holding on and letting go.”

– Rumi

Learning that we may not carry children is a devastating realization that comes with heavy grief and requires specific support and care. We all have a vision for our futures in mind, but when infertility forces us to reimagine how we will form our families, this vision is forced to shift. Infertility comes with deeply personal and familial grief that is largely overlooked by society. The loss is real, and like any loss, it leaves a permanent scar. And yet, in time, scars will heal, and although we always carry them with us, they become a part of our story.

Together, we can move through the grief and pain of infertility, finding ways to cope, to forgive, and to find healing.

Together, we’ll work within four important Pillars of Care:

Communication:

We’ll discuss information and education on the physical, emotional, mental changes you may experience as you walk the difficult terrain of grief and (in)fertility.

Together we’ll formulate a plan that includes resources and supports that you may find comforting during this time.

We can facilitate conversations with the children in your life who are earthside; including child-friendly resources, so that you are prepared for the questions that they may ask.

Community:

We can create and connect you to community, including resource building, so that you are well supported.

We can create a plan that incorporates your family and friends so that they know how to best support you at this time.

We can teach family and loved ones how to model healthy grief, identify chosen language and provide support to any children in your life who are earthside.

Care:

We’ll look at resources and tools that you can use to integrate deep self care and support at this time.

Connection:

When walking difficult paths, we often have trouble expressing what we feel. Through different forms of creative expression, the creation of legacy projects and exploring the power of holding sacred space; we can help to move our emotions from our internal world to the external. This ultimately helps us to clarify our intentions, honor our experience, and create an anchor to return to in difficult times. Together we can remain connected to our loved ones and gently move from feeling stuck into a place of acceptance.

Doula Support For Individuals, Caregivers & Families

Complimentary 30 min Connection Call

$180/90 min Intensive Comfort Session

$120/60 min Continued Comfort Sessions

Unlimited email support

Everyone has different needs and requires personalized support. Each plan is created specifically for you.

We have the utmost compassion for your experience and feel that cost should not be a barrier to accessing support. If you are in need of financial assistance, please contact us to learn more.